

Stammering/Stuttering
is a disturbance of the rhythm and fluency of speech. It may take the form of
repetition of syllables or words, or block in the production of speech.
Introduction
Learning to talk is exciting, it enables children to communicate
with family, friends and the world at large and provides a way of bridging the
gap between self and others.
Problems with speaking can be extremely upsetting for parents and
frustrating for the child. There are, however, plenty of opportunities for
mistakes to occur since conversations involve listening, understanding,
creative thinking, controlled movement and co-ordination of muscles.
In addition, children live very much in the present, which
sometimes leads to feelings so intense that turning thoughts and experiences
into words can be difficult. It is not surprising that some children stumble
and get stuck when learning to talk.
Normal
dysfluency in young children
Pausing, repeating words or sounds ("can, can, can I",
or "mu mu mum mummy"), stopping and starting again are the sorts of
dysfluencies that occur when children are learning to talk.
Mispronouncing words and muddling up sounds is natural enough but
one may perhaps notice the child has difficulty getting his words out, or is
unable to say certain sounds (such as ‘r’).
Don’t
be too alarmed by any of this. You don’t want your child to grow up with a
speech problem, but provided there’s no physical reason for his problems; most
of them soon clear up. With this defect, the child talks very hesitantly,
perhaps repeating the first letter or first part of a word several times. Many
children in the early stages, of language association develop stammering.
Many
have episodes of obvious dysfluency during the years of very rapid language
development (2-5 years) and at other times during childhood when there are
extra pressures to speak well.
A child who is slow in using sentences or in speaking clearly may
be particularly sensitive to communication pressure.
Epidemiology
In normal situations the first production of sound is in the form
of crying which is followed by babbling. In the first 2-3 months a child uses
about 7-8 sounds, which by 2-3 years of age increases to about 25. In initial
phases the child’s comprehension vocabulary is more than the speech vocabulary.
By the age of 10 months the child starts uttering words which gradually
increase, depending upon the mental state and reaching to 250 by 2 years of
age.
Stammering
is four times more frequent in boys than in girls.
Stammering
usually begins in childhood usually between three and five and in 90 per cent
of cases before the age of eight. One in 20 children will have a stammer at
some time point but 4 per cent recover, with or without help, so that only 1
per cent of adults stammer.
What is
Stammering/Stuttering ?
When normal dysfluencies occur so often that they interfere with
talking or cause distress to either the speaker or the listener, then
stammering may develop.
If relaxed repetitions or stretched out sounds become very tense
and the child struggles to finish a word then he or she may be stammering.
However, there are many children who experience these problems with talking who
don't develop a stammer.
It is impossible to tell for sure which children will pass through
a stage of stammering and which will not, so it is always best to do whatever
we can to make speaking easier for the child.
There
is so much variation in the rate at which children acquire speech that slow
progress in language growth at the toddler stage is often within the limits of
normal development.
However
the situation becomes worrying if the gap in language skills between one child
and others of his own age, persists beyond the age of three years. If one
suspect’s that the child’s use of language is delayed- and they have had his
hearing tested properly, then ask the GP to refer him to an educational
psychologist, or to a speech and language therapist.
It’s really not known yet. Scientists have been working
for years to try and find out whether there is a cause and whether there is a
cure. So far all that has been agreed is that the problem is highly
complicated.
Stammering is probably not caused by one single thing for
a child- it is more likely that it is the result of very many factors. More
importantly, the ingredients of stammering are probably different for every
child who has a stammer. And the things that help stammering may be slightly
different for every child too.
This diagram shows the
four different areas which may influence the stammer:

Environment
This is linked to
everything around the child - home, school, friends, enemies, etc! These don't
cause the stammering, but may affect how much the child stammers.
For most children it
is a combination of some of these factors that, when added together, make it
more likely that they will stammer.
Personality
·
Does the child keep all the things to himself?
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Does the child worry a lot?
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Does the child want to be a perfectionist?
Physical Factors
Inheritance
As far as it is known, it is not so much the stammer that is inherited
but rather particular patterns of language development and particular strengths
and weakness in different areas of language skill. This means that some
children need more support and fewer demands in order to develop their speaking
skills in their own good time.
Once a child has developed basic language and articulation skills,
it is easier to deal with more complicated ideas and communication pressures.
Development
of a Stammer
·
Too many demands, which the child is not mature enough to meet,
can increase dysfluency which can develop into stammering, especially if the
child is very sensitive to failure. There are also things that a child may
think and do that can make the problem worse, for example:
A belief or feeling that speaking dysfluently is shameful or
wrong.
·
Concentration on the detailed mechanics of speaking may lead to
self-consciousness and more mistakes.
·
Trying harder to speak fluently may turn relaxed repetitions into
tense stoppages as the child tries to force the word out.
·
In trying to understand stammering certain words, people or
situations may be blamed. Avoidance of these to reduce stammering may lead to
constant scanning ahead and changing of words and so to less and less
confidence in speaking abilities.
·
The experience of a loss of control while speaking can be
humiliating. As a society we think badly of people who are unable to control
their body and its functions.
·
A feeling that they are seriously different from others may make
children feel isolated and lonely.
Speaking
situations which can lead to more dysfluency
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Speaking to adults who talk very quickly.
·
Speaking while having to look high up to see the listener's face.
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Speaking when he thinks he will be interrupted.
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Speaking to someone who is not really listening.
·
Speaking when he fears the consequences of what is said.
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Speaking when he does not want to or when he has nothing to say.
·
Speaking when very tired, upset, or feeling unwell.
The severity of stammering may depend on the child's surroundings.
The child may have problems initiating speech, or flowing from one syllable to
the next - all stammers sound different. Some deal with the problem by simply
not speaking at all.
Child’s View
A child is likely to feel confident and happy when there is a
balance between the demands that are made, the child's ability to meet these
and the amount of support that is given. Here are some examples of the demands,
abilities and supports that can affect speaking:
·
Demands can arise from what people actually do or say as well as
what the child thinks they want.
·
People may demand: good, clear speech; answers to lots of
questions; information; grown-up behaviour; quick replies.
·
The child may want to: do things well; please parents and other
adults; be liked by other children; talk frequently about needs, wants, hurts
and pleasures.
·
The situation may be: noisy, busy, frightening, exciting, tiring,
competitive, there may be interruptions and lots of talking.
Communication
abilities
To speak in fluent sentences children need to: know lots of words;
know how to put words together (grammar); think quickly of the 'right word' or
correct sentence to say what they really mean; listen and understand what
others say; learn which sounds we use in our language and how they are put
together to form words.
They must also develop motor or mechanical skills so that they can
copy the sounds that others use in order to be understood; co-ordinate all the
muscles used for breathing and speaking; control the muscles to move quickly
and smoothly from one sound to the next.
These abilities are affected by how the child feels as well as by
the demands placed upon him. When the child feels: happy, confident, listened
to, sure of the content etc., then it's easier to speak well.
When the child feels: upset, tired, unwell, over-excited,
unimportant etc., then speaking can be difficult.
Support
It can be difficult to offer support to others when we are anxious
ourselves. However, trying to take the child's view changes our focus and makes
helping possible. Then we can do those things that make the child feel loved
and wanted as well as all the little things that help in particular situations,
for example:
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Listening attentively
·
Responding kindly and uncritically.
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Offering physical support when needed
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Helping the child to feel safe.
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Being encouraging.
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Helping others understand our child.
Speaking is easier when abilities and support balance demands.
We can
help the Child
·
Look at the child and get your face on the same physical level
·
Speak in language that can be understood easily
·
Talk about the present and things that can be seen
·
Reduce the number of questions that you ask, allow the child to
choose when to tell you things
·
Give the child time, slow your own speech, show that you are
listening and interested
·
If the child is very dysfluent then reduce demands. Maybe return
to some of the favourite books, rhymes, games and activities to help the child
feel the security of the familiar.
Take
the focus off speech
Find time to do things with your child that do not require much
talking and where the activity or looking or listening is more important than
speaking. Spontaneous, easy talking may occur naturally as a result of the
shared experience.
Parents
Should Do
·
For five minutes at least 3 times a week, daily if you can manage
it, arrange a time in the day when you can give your child your full attention
in a calm and relaxed atmosphere.
·
Try not to get stuck with responses that you know are not helping.
You can experiment with ways of helping especially if you can discuss them
first with a speech and language therapist.
·
Try to put yourself in your child's shoes, look at speaking
situations from his or her point of view and think about what may help. Slowing
down your own speech when you talk to your child will make it easier for
him/her to follow what you are saying and help him feel less rushed. This can
be more helpful than telling the child to slow down, start again or take a deep
breath.
·
Avoid encouraging tricks, that is, things that we do not normally
do in relaxed conversations but which improve fluency for a short while.
·
It may help to pause for one second before you answer him or ask a
question. This slow, less hurried way of speaking gives your child time before
answering.
·
Show you are interested in what s/he says, not how he is says it.
Look at him/her when s/he talks, then s/he knows you are listening and won't
rush his/her speech.
·
Use the same sort of sentences your child does - keep them short
and simple.
·
Keep natural eye-contact when s/he is speaking. Do not look away
when s/he stammers.
·
Reduce the number of questions you ask. Always be sure that you
give your child time to answer one before you ask another. Children can feel
under pressure when asked a lot of questions at once.
·
Encourage everyone in the family to take turns to talk. This will
reduce the amount that your child is interrupted and s/he interrupts others.
·
Praise your child for things s/he does well. This will help to
build confidence.
·
Respond to the behaviour of the child who stammers in the same way
as that of a child who does not stammer. Discipline needs to be appropriate and
consistent.
·
Other, more usual ways of increasing fluency can be tried. If
something helps then continue, if not then stop and think again. For example,
you may find that slowing your own rate of speech helps whereas telling your
child to slow down just increases frustration. Do not correct mispronunciations
or grammatical mistakes. Just say the correct version for your child to hear.
·
Do not blame yourself, you have not caused the stammer. Try to
think optimistically about all the things that you can do to help your child
speak more fluently.
·
To say "don't worry" is unfair since it is probably
impossible not to worry. However, if you can remain attentive and calm when
your child gets stuck while talking, then your positive attitude may help him
or her to feel confident.
·
Try to put into words your child's upset and difficult feelings,
this will help him or her to feel understood and supported. Do some of the
things that you and your child enjoy and where speaking is not especially
important.
·
Be encouraging. Stammering can undermine children's confidence so
that they fail to notice their achievements and everything becomes overshadowed
by failures with speaking. Reduce the pressures on all members of the family
including yourselves. Do not worry about 'good manners', just give a good
example and your child will learn.
·
Do
anything that makes talking and listening enjoyable. If your child seems aware
of stammering then talk gently to him about it. Some adults who stammer felt
during childhood that there was a 'conspiracy of silence' which made them feel
ashamed of their stammering. Uncritical and open discussion can help.
·
Try to be consistent in your handling of all your children. Being
clear about family rules helps everyone to feel secure. Consistency with
bedtimes, eating, discipline, etc., can reduce battles and also help to avoid
excessive tiredness and irritability.
Do seek the help of a speech and language therapist at your local
health centre. In most districts you can make direct contact, there is no need
to go to a doctor or health visitor first.
It does not matter how young your child is, most therapists like
to see a family as soon as they are worried rather than wait until the
stammering is developed and so harder to deal with. Therapists are careful not
to increase a child's awareness of stammering so they often work mainly with
the parents, though an older child may be more directly involved in therapy.
Lots of children have problems with teasing. Here are some
problem solving ideas which the children can use:
Stammering
and the Bilingual Child
During the pre-school years, virtually all children learn to speak
one language well. Across the world there are millions of children who grow up
learning to understand and speak more than one language. Research has shown
that young children are easily able to learn at least two languages
simultaneously.
Between the ages of two and five years, some children repeat words
and phrases and hesitate with "em's" and "er's". This is
normal when a child is sorting out what to say next.
About five in every hundred children stammer for a time when they
are learning to talk. Given that it is considered that about 50% of the world's
population is bilingual, there is a large number of children who are showing
signs of stammering whilst learning to speak more than one language. However,
this does not mean that there is a link between stammering and being bilingual.
There is no evidence to suggest that learning
more than one language causes Stammering.
Exposing a child to one or more languages at this early stage is
giving him or her opportunity to become competent in both languages.
Managing early dysfluency in a bilingual child is really very
similar to the guidelines for a child who speaks one language:
·
Continue using two languages at home.
·
Show your child how to speak languages well by speaking them one
at a time and not mixing up vocabulary.
·
Let your child mix up the two languages, as this is a natural
stage for bilingual children. Continue to speak the languages properly
yourselves but don't ask him or her to repeat it correctly.
If stammering continues for more than a few weeks or seems to be
getting worse, one should arrange to see a speech and language therapist.
Treatment
Stammering can make many people feel desperate. Some will go to
just about any lengths to experiment with claims of cure, many of which are very
expensive. These can take the form of drug therapies or private intensive
courses, which may claim to cure a lifelong stammer in a matter of days and,
naturally, this is an attractive prospect!
People who claim to have found the cure for stammering
often passionately believe they have something to offer those who stammer.
Evidence shows that speech and language therapy can make a
positive difference to stammering, especially in the under 5 age group.
By the time children are older, in teenage years, and in
adulthood, stammering has generally become more complex. At this later stage
psychological issues (including anxiety, fear and self consciousness) have
begun to impinge and become intrinsically linked with the stammer itself. While
this makes lasting speech change more difficult to achieve, and habitual
patterns harder to 'unlearn', older children and adults can still benefit
enormously from speech and language therapy and achieve many very positive
results.
There is sadly no evidence of a universal cure for
stammering, and 'universal' is an important aspect of this notion of cure.
Cure is a medical term and by definition suggests something that
is universally effective.
Stammering on the other hand, by teens and adulthood, is a complex
disorder with characteristics unique to each individual. It may sound similar
to that of another person but differences become evident when factors that
trigger the stammering, and reactions to the onset of stammering (both
physical and emotional) are considered. These aspects are highly personal and
make it important to consider individual needs in any course of therapy.
While there are techniques which can be helpful, these almost always